Our wishlist is this: take whatever amount makes you happiest and put it towards the charity that makes you happiest. Toys for Tots is always a good fall-back plan.
And if you just have to send a package to the boy, he'd love one of your favorite children's books purchased to support your (new) local library. Dog eared and well read is fine with us! (Many local library have "friends" of the library book sales. It's a great way to feel good twice!)